Seven Key Words dfor Success

These seven words when used properly, hold the key to finding answers and solutions to every problem, obstacle, or barrier you will encounter. When you are faced with a problem, look at this list to determine what you need to do or be to solve it.

1) Change:

To make things different in your life, you have to make one or more changes. Change happens all the time,and there is nothing we can do about it. Few things in life are static or permanent, and the "status quo" is never permanent. There are only things in life that never change: truth, and the fact that everything else changes. Regardless of your background, you can become more.
Even when it is forced on us, change is good. We need constant emotional, spiritual, and intellectual stimulation so we can thrive and grow to become all that is in us to become.
If your life is not what you want it to be, let go of what is holding you back, add to thoses things that will help you make it the way you want it to be.If everything in our lives is constantly changing, why do we have such a difficult time? Many people resist making changes because they are in a comfort zone. When they look outside and see all the other joys life has to offer, they say they'd like to have them, but not if it means leaving their comfort zone.
Wouldn't it be wonderful if we accepted change and even planning on it? But change is difficult for many people, primarily because we feel fear, inadequacy, discomfort, worry, or stress. To better view change, we should see it as inevitable. Change should not what it is-a source of growth.

2) Choice:

Life gives us the opportunity to grow. Whether you grow or not is your choice. You can choose to grow and become a happy, spiritual, and emotional giant or stay small. The choices are always your, and you always yours, and you always have them.
By culivating the Success Attitude and asking for help from knowledgeable mentors, you can avoid many of the pit falls in the sidewalks of life. Should you fall in, you'll climb out with their aid. Your future is not in the hands of fate, your boss, the stars, your destination.
When you are faced with a situation in which you are not happy or not getting what you want, ask yourself, "What am I doing to cause this?"and "What do I have to change in me, about me, or around me to make it the way I want it to be?" Most things that happen to you are either a direct or and indirect result of choices you make.

3) Truth:

Only truth properly applied will free you from bondage that ignorance and limited
paradigms create. Are truth and being open and honest the same thing? Even though telling the truth is being honest, few are totally open with all the truth. When we conceal our real feeling, we're not being open; we are only telling part of the story and not being totally honest. Truth can be obscure if your are not looking for it, but when you have truth as your operating system, you'll stop giving other people or circumstance the power to control your life. You must own the role you play in your circumstances by acknowledging that the truth will free you to make the necessary changes to get what you want.

4) Trust:
For a truly fulfilling life, trust is essential. You need to trust your mentors, your instructors, your spouse, your doctor, and your boss. Most importantly, you need to trust your own ability to learn, and trust that choosing to make changes will be beneficial.
Many people don't take action because they don't trust that it will make a difference. They don't trust that other people will care. But trust gives you the confidence to take action, and it is the cornerstone of all relationships. If you don't trust others for fear of being hurt, your growth will be severely limited.
Trust comes from making the decision to trust, then it is difficult for me to know when to decide they can be trusted again. But when, or if, it ever happens, it still involves another decision to trust.

5) Ask:
To get what you want you must be willing to ask. It is amazing how many people simple will not-or cannot-ask for what they want or need. Sometimes we feel selfish for asking for what we want or need or we're embarrassed or afraid it will cause problems. many times we find it difficult to ask for help of any kind, including candid feedback, because of pride or ego. For too many people, asking for directions implies they have either lost their way or are unaware of what to do. Asking for solutions to our problems means admitting we have problems in the first place.
But we should all learn that asking for help and direction is not a sign of weakness; it is the quickest way to get what you want-from your spouse, your friends, and God.

6) Decide:
If you want things to be different in your life, you must decide to make changes. Action is the direct result of making a decision. Sometimes we are afraid to make decisions be cause we aren't sure of the outcome, but deciding to postpone-or refusing to maker-a decision is still a decision. To make a good decision, you must gather information from reliable sources and then decide which of the choices will best suit you and your situation. Some decisions turn out to be wrong. and others don't give you the results you were counting on. Therefore, some decisions need to be revisited, and you must make course corrections.
With the help of mentors, you can decide to choose what way is best for you to achieve your desires. Once you settle on a plan of action, there may still be doubts and obstacles in your way, but to keep from wavering back and forth, simple choose to go for it. If it is a desire, you will make the necessary decisions until you overcome all hurdles.

7) Risk:
Our fear of taking ricks nips many good ideas in the bud and kills many hopes and dreams. But we have to recognize that to venture out on a new path involves taking risk. Don't let your fear of risk debilitate you. People who risk little, grow little. If you truly have a Desire, you will face the risk at all cost and you will learn and grow.

The Reality of Life!

A few months ago after working for the same company for 5 years, I was terminated because of a merger. No golden handshake, just a swift kick in the ass. Like everyone else I had a mortgage, car to pay, as well as the normal bills. Reality! who is going to employ a 60 year old, fact Not Many.

After about 2 weeks (which I treated as a holiday) it dawned on me that this was it. The future looked bleak, still the same bills but with a far lower income. I needed to find a regular extra source of money. I had played around with the internet but had never really looked at Ebay. Joined up took a look around and splashed out $50 on a number of auctions on how to get rich on ebay. Total waste of money. So I started the same way as just about every one else. I raked out all the items in the house we never used and listed them. Great, income first 2 weeks of about $800. Unfortunately you quickly run out of items no longer needed, to sell. Got down to the wife and the dog and decided to keep both.

At this point most new seller give up, but I could see that ebay worked, a huge market with many buyers not just USA but all over the world. Then the magical word appeared Dropshippers. Spent another $20 on the info: join this club etc; I may as well put the money in a charity tin. The only people who win are the drop shippers.

Plan 2 - Buy from the wholesalers. Yes another $20 or so for a list of wholesalers. I must admit that this works, if you can find items that will sell, if you can find items at the right price that will make a fair profit (remember you have ebay and paypal charges) and if you can find a wholesaler who is close to you.

Plan 3. Tried buying wholesale from ebay. Not a good idea. Either the items for sale were stock that had been tried on ebay before and never moved or the postage for the lot was that high there was little if no profit in it when sold. (Running out of plans)

Plan 4 - Beginning to lose heart now thinking of giving up, tried the local auctions. Now this is great fun and you can get some fantastic bargains (I still go to a number of them) but the supply is not regular and you end up buying all sorts of goods. It is also very time consuming listing them. The ideal way is to sell a repeat item that you list over and over again. One click and it's out. (Hope I am not boring you too much with these ramblings)

Plan 5 - Cracked it! Ebay as you know not only operates in the USA but all over the world, so I spent a few nights raking over the USA site. Bingo found a supplier who would sell to me at wholesale prices.

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